Author Archives: seethedancingllama

About seethedancingllama

I'm a hodge podge! Single mama, organic gardener, naturopathic trainee, future doula, feminist, cook, and musician. This is my little corner of the world.

Feminism: Hot Patootie! Bless My Soul!

<I have dubbed this the “Lorde” hair… Back in October 2013 during the annual Irvington Halloween Festival I went to go see an audience participation showing of The Rocky Horror Picture Show with my dad. (I am aware now what … Continue reading

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Dating: Distraction theory

  Ladies, listen up. I am sick and tired of seeing this all over the FB.. “No MORE DISTRACTIONS!””God is the only man for me!” ..two weeks later.. “I’m so lonely!””No one wants to date me! :(“ If I hear … Continue reading

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Feminism: Ableist in disguise?

I have been rolling around with the idea that the phrase “Riots not Diets” might actually be somewhat… dare I say… ableist? I am looking at this from the perspective of someone who has rampant heart disease and diabetes in … Continue reading

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Domestics: I forgot I was making soup.

I did something I’ve never done before. I burnt, badly, a pot of soup. I was making tortilla soup for my dad and completely spaced that I was even making it. The house was warm, smelled amazing, and then all … Continue reading

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Personal Life: Today is the day…

My ex husband moves to Florida today. He is getting married in a few weeks. This all feels like a really bad dream. This feels like the last nail in the coffin of our relationship. He’s gone. Probably forever. He’s … Continue reading

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Single Parenting: Mommy Guilt

^Fall 2012 in Bloomington, IN I know we all experience it. That nagging feeling that we aren’t being a good parent. That feeling like I should be doing something more… Here is my big concern… My son is 21 months … Continue reading

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Trials and Tribulation of Growing Out a Pixie

In February 2013 I was a budding little new feminist. I think many in my situation are so full of wonder and shock when they finally realize how upset the social equilibrium is. In my delirium I decided to raise … Continue reading

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